Doing stuff with the kids is great and while I would include it in GAL, I think you need you time too. she's there with the kids and you can go do something. Something different and new perhaps? Just something you like. Hell, for that matter go people watching at a shopiing center or tourist site.
My take on her going on about the separation agreement is that even if you aren't ready to discuss it, LISTEN to her. you can acknowledge what she saying without agreeing and let her know you'll think about it, but that you aren't ready to discuss it yet.
So get out and away from her at least for awhile today. Got any hobbies you've always wanted to try?
