Problem with all of this is the kids suffer, no one else, but in saying that, most people don't give a rat's rear end who they hurt as long as they get to do what they want to. Bottom line of all of this is, you either have to deal with it, or shoot them. LOL
Braveheart you kill me!!! LOL!!!
Yes I think they will continue to be a pain in the butt. Even when the D papes are signed I don't think it will change the dynamics unfortunately.
I have not heard from the kids. Granted, they were spending the day in the city so I don't really expect to hear from them until later. But I miss them and just wanted to hear the little voices this morning. At least they will be home tomorrow afternoon.
I do worry about what STBX and ow have said to them. I know they think I have been trying to sabotage their R with the kids, which is so far from the truth it is laughable. But they live in their little fantasy land and I'm sure are quite pleased with themselves this weekend.
At church today the priest was talking about how we should not blame God for our stuggles but that we need to embrace our struggles and transform ourselves into who God wants us to be. I went into church asking God to let the message reach my heart today, He did.
Not that I am going to roll over and be so forgiving that I don't stand up for myself. I am done making STBXs life easier. I am trying to forgive him for all he has done, I'm not there yet but I'm working on it.
Right now I just need to know when he gets a job and then I don't want to talk to him for a very long time.
I am still going to talk with D9 tomorrow evening. I will be honest and truthful. I can do no more than that.
