I told her that I could understand why she was down, as I was sure part of her had wanted to imagine a life with OM (am I ****ing understanding or what!)
careful - this smacks a little of mind reading .. of making assumptions. I may be wrong here but for me a little red falg went up. I hate it when my H "knows" what I think. it could be particular to me, during our bad times my H would assume he knew what i wanted, what I was thinking etc ... but ingeneral a lot of women don't want a man who mind reads them but a man who will REALLY listen to them.
Just a little warning flag.
But I agree, it seems you two are having way too many R talks. I could be wrong, it could just be my perception, but it may help just to back off a little, let her be, enjoy being you and give it time.
This is a tough situation for BOTH of you and you are BOTH hurting. Go slow and take it easy
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
