I've been thinking about what you wrote, W2S. To this point she has been a great mom. I don't see any evidence that will change, of course I could be wrong. She doesn't seem to be interested in being "out", just interested in not being with me. At this point, I have to say, the feeling is mutual, most of the time. I really don't intend to back her into a corner, though I guess she could choose to see it that way. But, there has been no change at all for at least two years, really more than that. She appears to be content this way. So, I don't see how anything will change unless I do something to change it.
Dom, I see what you are saying, and I agree to an extent, but I have really tried not to feed the negativity. I know I do sometimes, but there is a lot more coming from her than from me. Last night I gave her a little "side" hug, and said "Happy Anniversary". She said, "Happy Anniversary to you to", in about the flattest, deadest, coldest, voice I could imagine. That was it. I know it took two of us to get to where we are, but for a long time there has only been one of us interested in any different. DB things really haven't made much difference, she's a WAW except she still lives here.
The OW thought has crossed my mind. I actually would not be as shocked as one would think. Though I really don't suspect anything right now. I'd actually be less surprised at that than at on OM. What's that say? I don't know!
