Peace, Yeah, I totally agree with you, he is stuck and very confused. He wants me to let him go, but then when he thinks I really have, he freaks out and starts contacting me like crazy all of a sudden.
Update: My h text some of my/our other friends that friday that he left the wierd message about me being happily moved on with our friend tim. I don't know where he has even come up with this, cause tim and I never hang out alone, we only see each other with the whole group. He text tim and said that he has his blessing and that we will make a good couple. And he text another friend about it, and that freind asked him "what planet are you on" & said "they have no interest in each other". My H text that freind back and said "just wait and give it time, you'll see".
All my friends laughed there buts off when our friend told the group what my H was thinking. They all think my H has lost it completely, and find a lot of humour in this whole situation, as everyone else knows that tim and I are not compatable at all and have absolutely no interest in each other.
He also text me 7 more times yesterday. Text 1)= whats tj's #, I need to bury a hatchet - I responded with tj's # but said he hasn't hung out in over a month and good luck getting a hold of him cuz he is very busy with new job. Text 2)= I've seen him! thanx. Text 3)= Tj is probably contemplaiting his life, something that is long over due. - I didn't respond (but it drives me nuts that he still thinks that all of our friends are the ones with problems & not him). Text 4)=I want to pop in to the bar & watch our friends band play, I will not stay long and I will hang low, ok? - I text him back and said that I think he has the wrong night, cuz no one will be at the bar tonight, and if I see him its not big deal, and that I didn't even know what my plans were yet. Text 5)= well when is our friends band playing at bar? - I told him it is not untill next sat. night. Text 6)= OK, THANKS HUN! - what the heck is that all about. He had to purposefully taunt me by texting me "HUN", that is not a slip of words like I was assuming when he was calling me "Hun" on his last visit. Text 7)= FYI, I mailed your parents an offer on grandmas old house, whatever, it is just an offer. - Alright, I didn't respond but this one drove me even more nuts and here is why: Last year a month before he left me, we asked my parents if we could buy my deceased grandmother old house from her to fix it up and flip it. A week after we asked my rents, my H backed out of the deal. Then when he actually left me, and I had to sell the duplex that I owned and we were previously living in becuase I could not handel the payments and landlord it alone. Thats when I was actually considereing buying my grandmothers old house by myself and fixing it myself. when my H caught wind of this, he actually threatened me that if i bought it that he would have to burn it down. Now he wants to buy it off my parents, WTF!!! My parents even know about his threats from last summer, and they know his terrible financial situation, and his bad credit situation, and what he has done to me. Does he really think for one second that they would actually sell it to him, he is delusional to the max. He needs to be checked into a mental institute or something. My world is just spinning. TIPPER
