Has your W made contact with the OM?? My husband told the OW that it was over on Feb 1 and since then has seen her once and text messaged her a number of times. It is really difficult to deal with. I know that he is trying. He says that he does talk to her now and then but doesn't have a "relationship" with her anymore. I am torn within myself as to what to do about it. Part of me wants to tell him to leave if he wants to keep talking to her and another part of me wants to wait it out.

What have you been doing?

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08