It doesn't matter anyway. She refused to switch cars and is now moving headstrong into the purchase of a new car that we cannot afford.
And by calling him and saying what I intend to say is not saying "but she started it" as much as it is saying "I continued it and it was wrong of me to do so."
You know, I the disrespect is growing thin here. Another man is screwing my wife. And it appears that I am content to just sit back and let it happen. Not any more. I am standing strong for myself and for my kids. And standing strong means knowing where to draw the line.
You can cry "MLC" all you want, but the bottom line is that she is an adult and needs to be held to account for her deliberate actions. I would like the "it's-OK-because-it's-an-MLC-just-wait-until-it-passes" apologists to ask themselves at what point do we hold these people responsible for what they are doing?