Good news today... W volunteered information as to why she was down yesterday. W is p****d off with OM. She has finally seen something I told her she would see. Whatever happens he is going to come out of this with no sacrifice. She overheard him saying to a friend that he had booked flights to go to florida in the summer with his family. She said she doesnt know if he will have fun or not, as it seems that he is not getting along with his W. My W seemed to think that OMs relationship wasnt going to last too long (her thoughts, not from him I gather). But these plans seems to indicate differently. A little bit of a sureal conversation (I was in the place of a girlfriend I think). I told her that I thought she had said he wanted to work on his M. She said yes, but he hadnt seemed happy about it, both he and his w earn a decent salary, so she thought he was staying becuase of the lifestyle (and the son). I told her that I could understand why she was down, as I was sure part of her had wanted to imagine a life with OM (am I ****ing understanding or what!) She said she had imagined that, IF he was `the one`, but seems he is not! I repeat...he is NOT! I asked her what she wanted from him now, and I didnt think she would be happy as the OW. She said she doesnt know. Now I know this is too early to be excited, as all he has to tell my W is that he had no choice and it was his Ws idea. BUT I knew my wife would get annoyed with him sooner or later... she gets annoyed with everyone LOL. It is uncanny that this is actually just about 6 months after they started to get a bit more serious in their A. The 6 month mark! Now my W is still talking about S but I think this is a big point here. Now she has had the seeds of doubt placed in her mind about OM, I think she may be able to `see` me more.
Told my folks today, not any details, just that we are having problems. Dont want to S to be a big surprise when/ if it appears.
Still feeling good after my revelational yesterday. Took W out for a pub lunch today. Then we went shopping. I flirted a little bit because she was trying on sweat pants, which were very figure hugging. She smiled and rolled her eyes when I made comments... dont think she minded! I tried to touch her hand, but she told me not to `be cheeky`, but not in a bad way.
Cheers
Steve
PS we will be watching desparate housewives again tonight, got the new box set... dont know about desparate housewives, I am becoming a desperate househusband!!!
PPS, I am being realistic, and am bracing myself for another dip on this rollercoaster!!
Me 27 W 30 M 2yrs/ T 5yrs Expecting our first child Sept 08 warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08 I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08 Living together.
