Firekeeper,

Retrouvaille could help you and your husband. Look at their website, http://www.helpourmarriage.org. They talk about the 4 stages of a marriage. The 3rd stage is Misery. That is where you are now. A Retrouvaille weekend can be the turning point that ends the misery stage and helps you to let go of the mistakes of the past. The website will give you dates and locations of weekends all over the world. They have an excellent success rate -- over 50%. Retrouvaille saved my marriage. I have no doubt that if we had never gone to Retrouvaille, we would be divorced now instead of happily married.