CONTACTING OW/OW'S HUSBAND

[theotherhalf]

It has been really hard for me to let go of the fact that these two people continue on to play me for a fool and get away with it. It should be against the law for people to sleep with M spouses.

I have tried almost everything and the A continues...now I suspect it is failing.We'll see...

When I first found out I confronted OW immediately. Then H. Of course they both denied it. They both told me that I only knew half of what I think I know. To this day I don't know what that meant.

I told everyone!!

For months I tried everything to catch them and to expose and prove the A. I failed. She has done this before and is very good at what she does.

I have talked to OW a few times. She is very cruel and to this day claims to have not done anything wrong. That he came to her. That he told her that he was getting a D. That it's not her fault that I can't keep my H at home. That she is 42 yrs old and can do what she wants.

A few months ago H used me (i believe) to try and end things with her. He set it up for me to catch her at his house. He claimed that he was tired of hiding it and was going to tell his family and everyone. That if they couldn't accept her he was out of here, going to move away. Two days later he ended it with her. I pursued him and a month later they were back on.

Since then I have stopped trying to catch them. I have been trying to let it alone to work itself out. I have only called her a couple of times when I know that he has spent the night with her. (can't help myself) I guess I do this because I NEED to hear the truth, I never get it. I am so angry, I can't let it be. I figure if I can't stop them being together I can at least bother them and make there time together not so pleasant. It has gained me nothing...

Recently I have let them go...I do nothing. I haven't called her phone in quite awhil. I don't drive by her house. I don't drive by his. This week it sounds like he is trying to end it with her.

So when they say...There is NOTHING you can do...I believe it. Maybe you'll get lucky and what you do you get results. But I believe it is just that, LUCK.