she likes it when i take care of her and do things with her. thats when she says she notises the changes and likes them. but she always cuts these times short. i would like to help her move ( take care of her) but she says she will be fine, so i guess I will just tell her if she needs help im here but is she dosent then ask for it i will just sit back.
I'm sorry. This is the worst kind of mind game and I have zero respect for spouses who inflict this pain. It's so childish and it makes it hard to DB.
Just rise above it and be friendly, but detached I guess.
