Hi Shades.

Im sorry your kids are in the middle of all this.

I would just tell D the truth. The honest truth. You did nothing wrong.

It doesnt matter if you were the one to file. You did not choose this.

You need to tell H to stop hurting the girls with the things they say. They , especially OW, should not be talking about ANY of that with them.

I would tell H that is inappropriate .

Your babies will be home soon. Just love them when they get home!

Hang in there.