Rob is so right. He probably didn't feel he lied to her. I recently found out my H was telling people we were 'in the middle of a divorce'. My H, at this point, feels the marriage is over, so he isn't lying.

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but still he refuses to give it up or even to admit that he has been wrong in ANY way about anything he has or is doing.


Yep. Typical.

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He also blames me for absolutely every problem we had in our M prior to me trying to do somthing about it.


This is typical and happening to me as well.

Hope you got some sleep.