Do you remeber that old quote from David Lee Roth? That his ideal woman was one who .. well "went at it" all night then turned into a pizza at 4am.
OK, he was joking. But to your XW, it sounds like she wishes you were someone she can call on as a handyman round her flat, take the kids ONLY when it's convenient for her and also be there to applaud her as she gets her independence.
DLR's quote was funny, he was joking. Your XW .. well she really is in lah lah land. You are the kids DAD and always will be. If she can't understand that then she's nuts. She wanted to have her independence, to stand on her own two feet. She could have had all of that with you. You would have been willing to try, to see if there was a way the two of you could be together and still fufil her need to be more independent. But she chose not to take that option. Oh dear. Jeff, IMHO it looks as if she's going to carry on acting the brat for some time. Thankfully you're man enough to deal with her tantrums. What is it you say? Strength and honour. For SURE
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
