Of course she is going to make notes, etc. In her head she wants to be done with the Marriage. This shouldn't come as a surprise to you, she has been telling you this for ages.
And if you have been reading the other threads here you will see that this is all par for the course.
I know seeing it is black and white makes it real, but nothing has happened yet, she is venting on a piece of paper.
My Husband did the same thing, and I was also devastated when I saw that he was being dead serious about ending our Marriage.
BT, I made every mistake in the book, and I am telling you from experience to please let her be.
She needs to figure it all out for herself, even if it means wasting time and money with an attorney.
Now keep working on your own junk and let her twirl in the wind.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
