CONTACTING OW/OW'S HUSBAND

[Rob1231]

When she realized that she was dating a married man with a family that was not on the road to divorce, she broke up with him. Apparently, she thought he had lied to her. Imagine that.

Hey Sara, just one point I wanted to make about your post. I can easily see how he would NOT think he had lied to her. Lost in the confusion, hurt, and self-delusion of a MLC, it's very conceivable that your H would have said "We are on the road to divorce, no turning back" - and that he believed this completely.

So, when the OP is contacted by the LBS, who they have been told is "deperately clinging to the failed M even though it is too late" (how many of us heard THAT little beaut?) - well, it becomes he said/ she said. In that case, the odds are pretty high that the OP (who is a messed up MLC case themselves, as often as not) is going to listen to the WAS.