Ladey bug your H and my W could be twins. my W adored me for 7 years till I screwed up a year ago ( check my posts for the story) Unlike your H i am going to counseling and talking to a preist and doing everything I can to make myself better. the problem is once my wife droped the D word she desided everything was my fault and while she says she wants to work on the marerage, she had done nothing besided pull further and further away. she has just a couple days ago turned into the "Mean" stage were when I call her she is very shorty and basicly cuts me off after 15 seconds. I soemtrimes if my wife is seeing soemone else becaus e she seekes to spend every wakingh moment with her new friends and as far from me, and working on the marrage as possible.
Cat just so you know I am a cop and not all cops are mean to there wifes. I was neglectfull to my wife and i admit that, but now that I am making a honest try, she desided she just dosent know how to get better with me. My wife had went from 7 years of the best friens and partner I know to soemone who now seems to get off on being mean to me. a classic example is now when I want to talk to her on the few times she comes home to pick uop clothes she says " cant we walk and talk i have to hurry my riends whant to meet soon so we can go out." that is not the word of s person who wants to work on a marrage.
the people in the know here all seem to agree that you have to take you S words and let them run off your back, but when you are being treated mean it is very hard. LDY BUG I salute yoi for you work on this.
