for all of you who have had to suffer through this what do you recomend? Did you stay and try to help or did you leave the house? I have stated this a lot in my other posts but my wife has told me whe wants me to pursue her, nbut every time i do she puts up another wall. If I dont she tells me its not going to work out. In a way the move wont be to weird because she has been away from home almost every night for a month. I just feel like this is her running away.