Sorry about freaking you out mate...LOL. But I am no Bryan Adams.
Just a guy in Colorado who's W moved out because she has no feelings for him and needs time and space. In the meantime I have learned a lot about myself, gotten in decent shape, and learned to pray. All while trying to work and keep up with my kids.
So you see, no Bryan Adams here.
I sure hope that things work out for you. I have to tell you that I wouldn't wish this kind of pain on anyone. But I can also tell you that I won't be giving up as long as there is breath in me. I will give her space and time and from a distance...love.
I know you have been doing the same thing. I am impressed by your conviction and level of commitment. God will continue to work on your H as he is working on my W.
It is just so frustrating because it seems like it is so simple. Just come home and we can work on this together. Unfortunately it is much more complicated than that. I wish I knew what it was that my W was/is thinking, but I don't have a clue. Hell, she may be using me or having an A, at this point it doesn't really matter, because gone is gone and I will be standing here when she is done doing whatever in the hell she is doing.
I will be the one guy who hasn't abandoned her. My boys know I am "the man" and that I will always be there for them. Now if I could just convince their mum.
I pray for you and I pray for me. We are both on the road to finding a much better person in ourselves, now if we can just hang on until our S's figure that out too we'll be in a much better place.
I wish you all the luck in the world. Or at least in our respective hemispheres. G'nite.
-Bryan
Me-45 W-34 T-5 M-3 1/2 s-10 s-12 ILYBNILWY 12/26/07 Sleeping away from home at friend's house(because she says she can't get any sleep otherwise) 1/14/08 1/25/08 We tell kids she is moving out
