Brit...I have to admit that sometimes when I read your posts I hear circus music in my head (doot doot doodloodloot do do do)

It's nuts! "I want my space and you need to back off. So come over to my house and spend the day with me watching kids and then we'll go to dinner and go shopping and have a great time and I'll see you tomorrow ok?".

doot doot doodloodloot do do do...
J~

M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out