Try to be calm and don't over react to anything. Be very even tempered and complimentary.
It would help to be interested in what he has been doing with out seeming desperate. You have made it this far, I am sure you can make it through this meeting. I am sorry that you have had to suffer through this. I have found great comfort in http://www.rejoiceministries.org.
I am inspired by your willingness to stand for your M. You can keep doing this, I know you can! Hang in there. Try to relax and enjoy your meeting.
I will say a prayer for you.
-Bryan
Me-45 W-34 T-5 M-3 1/2 s-10 s-12 ILYBNILWY 12/26/07 Sleeping away from home at friend's house(because she says she can't get any sleep otherwise) 1/14/08 1/25/08 We tell kids she is moving out