I think is better to be ticked than depressed. That helps w/ the detaching. Sorry to hear your crazy wife is back. Another WTF in terms of her saying you can bring lunch over. Funny that your W is letting herself go again. My H looked pretty hot yesterday. Wore something more fashionable than he normally does. Made me think, oh, that is why I'm still attracted to him. I paid him a couple of compliments which I think he appreciated. I think the difference w/ him is that H is finally getting some sort of therapy that is helping. Until that happens with your W, I think the same old cycle will continue to go on and on.
Well, I got back to W's house and watched the baby while W baked some brownies and worked on some computer stuff - Didn't talk to OM via IM the whole time I was there afterwards. D eventually woke up, so W and I spent most of our time trying to keep track of two kids under 2 that didn't want to sleep. We talked some, watch TV and just vegetated on the couch for a while. After her sister picked up the baby, I pretty much gathered D together and was ready to bail out and come home. W said she'd give me the movie back tomorrow, although we don't have anything planned...
Anyway, W decided to come to dinner with D and I, so off we went together. W babbled all the way there, about all sorts of things. Kind of nice to actually have a conversation again. Dinner was fun, then we went to the mall with D to find W a new purse. D was crazy, so we just walked around with her for a while, went to a pet store to look at the puppies and kitties, then headed home. I dropped W at her house - No hug, kiss, ILY this time. I talked to her for a while on IM when I got home, but she's AWOL right now - No idea where she is.
D was messing with W's laptop, so I noticed that she had some e-mails from OM from Thursday. Guess that had something to do with the stress that evening - Seems like she's talking to him again, even though Monday/Tuesday she was adamant she was sick of him. Yeah, same old, same old with that. I guess he blew her off for lunch on Friday because her lesbian friend doesn't like him... Maybe she isn't so bad after all
So, that is where we are. We seem to have reopened our dialog, which is an improvement, and W appeared pretty comfortable with me at dinner and at the mall. I didn't even attempt any contact with her, since I figured that might just annoy her.
