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Hi all,
Just wanted to let you know I'll be out of town on business for a few days.

Oh yeah...this is important.

When my wife left for work, she gave me a big hug and told me to have a good time.

I was so happy, I cried...after she left of course.

It's the little things...

Bomb


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GREAT STUFF Bomb!
I am still pulling for you.

Keep it on the level. Keep on going. Steady steady.

It's great that you are flirting with your wife! Sounds fun!


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Bomb,

Faster than an Italian gigelo
More powerful than a mid life crisis
It's..............Bombadier!

I don't know how you're pulling this off. You are making such incredible progress in your sitch.

I gotta go back and read attack plan "R" again. I must have missed something.

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Sleep,

Apparently you didn't see the V-day post I left on somebody else's thread...wait...I think it was YOUR thread.

Anyway, my V-day gift blew her away. It led to a nice big hug. The next morning, she told me again how much she liked the gift, and then...out of the blue...she says:

"You know I still love you, don't you?"

I almost fell down the stairs.

Funny story from last night:

So I take charge and take her out to dinner after work. Nice little Italian place. I buy her a pricey bottle of Riesling to prime the pump, and away we go....she talked and talked and talked. And then, this was really cute...in her winey haze she looks at me and says: "Are you trying to get me drunk so you can take advantage of me?"

I just smiled, Cheshire cat style.

By the way, the waitress was an absolute doll. Cute, girl-next-door all-American, great body, adorable face, and wonderful, bubbly personality. And about half my age.

Hoah. Scent of a woman...

So of course, I had to flirt with her a little. And I left her a big tip.

And as we were leaving the place, the cute little waitress was waiting at the door to say goodbye, AND SHE GAVE ME A BIG HUG AND SMOOCH ON THE CHEEK! I have never seen this young lady before in my life. Whew! I felt warm and tingly all over.

Of course, wifey had this "What the hell?" look all over her face. Priceless. She asks: "And why did you get a hug and kiss?"

"I guess women just find me irresistable."

It was a good night.

Bomb


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Bomb,
Waitress probably sensed exactly what was going on.

Re. way you handled situation w/the pat--sounds perfect to me.

Scooter, I disagree w/your advice to Bomb.


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Bomb,

Nice. You handled that really well. That would have had me wanting to jump you (of course I'm not lost). Still, it was nice she had something to think about. \:\)

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I ditto Grace ;\)


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Yeah, Grace and Saffie,

Not too long ago she would have pushed me in the back seat of the car and had her way with me.

Sigh....

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Your sitch sounds awesome.....


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Yes Bomb, I missed it.

Stick to the pure grain alcohol and distilled water and women will continue to find you irresistable.

Riesling is my favorite wine. My dad must have indulged when he was in Germany in 1945 and passed the taste on to me. A little from time to time won't hurt, especially if you get the results you got the other night!

Faster than an Italian gigelo
more powerful than a mid life crisis
it's.......Bombadier!

At this point I need a little help with the music, I'm thinking John Phillip Sousa, will that work for you?


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