She's Gone - No Contact

[NikB]

K - yep, I think no contact, leave her alone, give her space, and get a life are your best bets right now.

I haven't read that one specifically but know of the concept in general. I try to be careful with those things though, because it's very easy to flip it around into a "blame the victim" thing. "Well you wouldn't have cancer if you'd just focused on attracting healthy things into your life!" Probably just me.. but I had a really awful muscle disease when I was a kid and was amazed at how cruel people could be with comments like that.

Isn't that hindsight frustrating? I know exactly what you mean. When I look at how I acted, especially during the last year or so pre-bomb - well, YUCK! I wouldn't have wanted to live w/me either.

Sounds like a fun night you have planned, that's great!