Oooooppps! Sorry Ali, for some strange reason I thought you were an Aussie. My mistake.

You said something I kind of zero'd in on: "...my partner was my life." I think too many of us rely too much on our partners as a source of our identity. Don't know...but I do think that our relationship problems can force us to GAL, so we're not so wrapped up in our partners.

Just babbling here.

I think Purr is out this evening. Hope it goes well.

Sorry to sound a little harsh earlier, but when I was in this stage of grief, there were some folks on this board who gave me a good kick in the arse and got me moving again. Sometimes that's what ya need.

Now, Ali, what time is it there in ol' Blighty? Going on about two in the morning? You pulling an all nighter? Insomnia?

bomb


Me: 51
W: 50
M 24 yrs
EA: since Apr 06
S22, S26, S28
ILYBNILWY:Nov 07

"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden