Originally Posted By: Mojo
It is funny to me that you are implying that the men I am dating are clueless "nice guys" and Cobra is implying the opposite.


That's not what I meant. I was listing men or groups of men who I can empathize with but whom I wouldn't suggest you date. I asked what you thought about a man who wanted to be in an exclusive relationship with you and you answered, essentially, "I can empathize."

Empathy or no empathy you're choosing to ignore some pretty odd behavior. You appear to want to be very self-aware unless it gets in the way of just flowing with a relationship you're enjoying. To that extent I agree with the author of that magazine (or was it web site?) article...you're not sorting fast enough.

Unless you're not interested in sorting right now and you just want to be in some unheavy, enjoyable Rs...in which case it would make sense to date fewer men interested in full-on heavy Rs.

Tell your monkey to stop chattering for a minute and let your lionness act in congruence with the desires of the zookeeper. There'll still be plenty of action for the monkey. ;\)

And yes, any man who whines about you not calling him enough is......a whiner. And a touch needy.


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