I checked out your MLC thread and we have more in common than you realize. I too am involved in the education field. I took a sabbatical this year to move across the country for H's job and am currently not working but am seriously considering returning with my S11 to the life that I left behind as I have no family, friends or H where I am currently living.
This is the second time I have moved for H's work. A couple of other times we have lived apart due to his work - very complex story. Ironically, during the times we were separated due to work, he missed me terribly, called every day and told me he loved me. I'm positive there was no OW during those times. H is constantly searching but is never happy and blames me. He's never been happy with any of his jobs, has tried many different jobs, initially truly excited with them but quickly realizes he's still not happy. There's a great chance he's MLC as well and/or depressed but refuses to see a doctor.
I too feel like I'm on hold til ??? (I haven't decided when I may be leaving back to my home town). I don't expect much to change with H for a long time.
Do you have friends where you are living? Keep posting - it helps to vent. BTW not many spelling mistakes in your posts.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
