Shades I dont think ive ever posted to you. Let ow cook herself...its sound she is running the show. Of course your stbxh lied to her.....thats a given. I would let her cook her own goose...she will keep pressuring the kids to like her and they will keep rebelling. She cant win them over that way...you just keep telling your D the truth and encouraging her not to feel guilty about being with Dad and ow.
other point....is your stbx avoiding getting a job til the D is thru? to maybe avoid as high a alimony/child support. I would be pointing this out to your L. His support should be based on earning potential. think about it please
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
