I whish you well. I understand that silence on the board can be defining, but speaking as a H who is losing his wife faster everyday I can say that if you love your W be patient and realise that 60 days is a long time. I know that as I approuch excactly your same delema ( My W is moving out tommorow but she still wants to date..yet pushes me away with her every breath) I would be frantic. DONT PANIC!! You said you have 60 days untill its desided. keep DBing and if it does fall throu ask yourself
1 did I try my best, because no one can make someone else do something they dont want. so if your trying and your W is not respondinh thats her fault not yours. and If thats the case
2. is the person she is now someone you would want top be with anyway? I am haveing a real hard tiome with this one myself because I have been married for 2 years and we lived together for 6. The wife I fell in love with waqs my best friend and lover. Now she Is cold to me and soemtimes mean. I have donebad things in out marrage but I made a desiosion to get better, whiel she hided behind a inability to forgive. the persone I love would not do that. Will both you and I keep trying HELL YES! but if in the end she dose not meet you half way....is thast the persone you commited yourself to or could be with even if she did come back.
