Your actions sound good. Now, you've got to work on your thought process.
Sweetie, you need to let go of what she may or may not be doing and why. The anxiety that build up needs to be worked off somehow. I know it takes time and you're doing well.
If it makes you feel any better (which I doubt, but just for contrast) my H and I sleep in the same bed still and it's been a loooong time since we've ML or kissed. I hugged him this morning (he didn't respond) b/c he'd done something nice and I was saying thank you. So, that has to count in the hug dept. I figure every few months I can try without it coming of as persuing.
Even if she's talke to her L, you don't know what was said. Sadly, we don't get the answers until we do.
