Thank you ANM. I appreciate your input. I hadn't thought about her possibly feeling trapped, but I can understand that.
I have been worried that ow is trying to send the message that she is a better "mom" to my kids than me. And her telling my kids that I left their dad too was obliteratiting a line that is so wrong. granted I don't know what STBX has told her but that is a flat out LIE. And she said it so sweetly and matter of factly I can only imagine what else might be said this weekend.
I honestly don't care what STBX and ow think of me personally. But it really does bother me that STBCX thinks that I would ever say something to the kids that is derogatory about him. That buthers me.
D9 is a very emotional child, very sensative and intuative that I worry a great deal about her. I will get her into C as soon as I can.
Thank you for the prayers.
I am going out to dinner with my sister and BIL. I will check in when I get home tonight. Hopefully STBX will answer his phone when I call the kids tonight...