Good advice but yes, Nik (you are so smart!), how can I be a safe harbour... Am I safe by leaving her alone, giving her space, getting a life?
Yes, my shrink agreed with ya'll about the religion being off limits in conversation. I don't think I'll make that mistake again if I ever get the opportunity.
By the way, have you all read any of the "Law of Attraction" books? They are very good and basically state that you have to be attractive and think positively to attract what you want in life (relationships, money, whatever). I'm trying.
I admit with GF I was walking on eggshells and afraid she'd leave me the whole time we were together as well as saying and doing extremely negative things. Looking back (I have learned so much), I can see how grateful I should have been for what I had instead of whining and complaining because I didn't get everything I wanted when I wanted it. I guess I was acting immaturely, selfishly and being demanding and controlling.
Thanks! Hope you all have a good weekend. I'm going out to eat and to the movie with friends (Saturday night). K
