I think you should definitely trust what he is saying, but I understand the hesitancy of giving your full trust and vulnerability to him, if he did it before, what will stop him from doing it again.
Really, you will never know for sure. But we can't live the rest of our lives in fear. At some point you will need to give that fear up and choose to live in the present. I think you'll know for sure when you can do that, when H makes an actual worded or action of his commitment to you. I think he will do that, when, I'm not sure. This was something that was ALWAYS on my mind. How would I know when H was really done be stupid and was remorseful and wanted me only. I never ever ever ever thought he would actually use words to tell me. I figured he'd just let things go how they were like it never happened. But shockingly, he actually DID tell me. I was away and he text me, but he even said he wanted me as his W forever. granted he was a bit drunk, sooooo, maybe that's what you need, to go on a vaca and tell your H to go get drunk or something.... haha, just kidn.
very cool he's introducing you that way too, and the ILY... that's awesome!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
