Firstly I think the 'Condor' persona may have had to change again.
I agree with lwb about your immediate actions and I also agree totally with what Sally said.
I take on board your replies to Sally but do you explain it to your W like that? Do you talk to her at all?
If I was her I would see all this as just petty, making life as difficult as possible. Strikes me that you are just digging yourself holes with this sort of attitude. If it's that bad for goodness sake file!!! Your current behaviour strikes me as it alienates your W further, harms your R with your in-laws, and is not good for anyone. Your kids must feel like they live in a war zone.
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I am consumed with a passionate pursuit of happiness and fulfillment. And I don't get that at home. I am not finding happiness and fulfillment at home. So I am working to create an environment where I am happy. And this environment includes a nice car. Well, it did for about a week
Mark, choose your battles more wisely. This one seems to have gotten you into a lose, lose situation. And honestly, happiness is not a word I would associate with you and your postings at the moment.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength