CONTACTING OW/OW'S HUSBAND

[kikidee]

All of your thoughts are so provoking. I will have to re-read everything which has been said and do some thinking. I think that my overwhelming anger is subsiding. Unfortunately, I still feel as though both my H and the OW should be responsible for their actions and I don't feel that SHE should get away with this and just go on living her life, unaffected, while she's lying to her own H. Please keep giving me reasons to be both a) strong and not contact her H and b) strong and go on living my own life and not involve anyone else. I feel as though I need the thoughts and wisdom of people who have been here. Doing_My_Best, I have yet to read your sitch but plan to when I have a moment. Thank you all for your great thoughts.

M: 15 years
T: 17 years
Kids: 3
Proof of EA: 10/07
S: 1/31/08
Suspected Physical Contact: 11/02/08