K - I can almost anticipate your response to Saffie: "How can I be a safe harbour for her when she doesn't contact me?" Am I right??
Keep getting out there and enjoying your life - the rest will fall into place, you just may not be able to see HOW right now.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread