But if it is how I think... I have been working on being "fun" myself since the OW episode in my own M. I know that for me I put that fun me in a box and stored it away, cause "proper Wives" in my mind are ( were) just that, I stored away the fun Woman he fell in love with. And Now getting her back is work. I needeed ,,,,, he needed the fun me and still does as a matter of fact, finding her 100% is the work for me. Harder than I ever imagined......
~ Just a thought~ but I do know that a lot of my friends who are Married stored their fun side away too. Thanks for reminding me of this! Have a great Weekend and God Bless you ! ~Ali