I am so frustrated. It has been 10 days and Amy has made no effort to contact me for anything besides "business". I know that I played a role in our situation and am working very hard at making myself the best person possible. I just wish that I would be given the chance to show Amy my changes. I have moved out and have absolutely zero interaction with her.

On a positive, I have resisted all temptations to contact her. I fully realize that I my situation were to turn around it would have to come from her wanting to contact me. I just don't know why she has no desire to contact me. I do have my issues but I have a lot going for me. I have a great job, education, in shape (workout 5x a week), am kind, generous, loyal.

I guess that establishing a codependancy relationship with Amy was a fatal flaw for my situation....I still love her....

I just don't understand.....

Nate

Last edited by nate75; 02/16/08 04:43 PM.
Me: 32
X Fiancee: 34
Bomb: 2/5/08
Separated: 2/6/08