[quote=lovemyguyThis morning I told him that it would be so nice if we could heal our R in the midst of everything else. No response of course.[/quote]
This is what I mean about not DBing - do not mention your R. Even it he brings it up first, try your very hardest to just listen for and validate feelings - don't share your own. Everything, even the most innocent comment, feels like pressure to these men.
I really appreciate the idea of the lows being part of our own cycle, one that we can come out of stronger each time, if we choose to.
