[\quote]The vows are usually "for better or for worse" - this is "worse" and those of us in DB mode are trying to figure out how we can honor our promises to our spouses even in the face of their pain, rejection, fear, running away - whatever it is that has brought our Ms to the current crisis.[/quote]
Thank you - sometimes I forget that this is the point, and I needed to hear it again now. (my quote attempt didn't work very well
