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[tomcat65]

Brand new here so here is the story,Try to keep it short LOL!Trouble started new years eve.Son comes and want to talk to me,tells me mom wants a divorce.Guess she had already told the other son but not me.Of course i confront her,tells me she does not love me anymore.Ask her about a name my son told me about.She says she slept with him already!Turns into pretty heated argument.She leaves that night.I did not throw her out!For three weeks,try to work things out.End of third week she just shows up on sunday afternoon.Acting like someone i dont even know!Says shes going to see a lawyer.I say I thought things were going good.Says that was then this is now,but she still loves me and always would?This situation has been going on seven weeks.just left me,kids,house,everything.Had money put away in special account.Left a huge finacial mess.Cleaning up most of that now.To keep roof over our heads.Found out three weeks ago she moved in with new guy,she cheated on me with!Would have ordered the books earlyer but didnt have any money.Just trying to keep food on the table.Books should be here monday.Have been reading these posts for two weeks.Should i start doing the 180.already am working on myself is going alright.Should I ask her for the child support money or would that wreak things also all her stuff is still mostly here should i ask her to move her stuff?Sorry to many questions no answers.I am not contacting her is this good right now,Got to stop typing head is getting messed up.Any advise would be good.Thanks tom