Again, it's the hope without expectations that's hard to pull off.
I know what you mean - it's a mindset. Belief that things will sort themselves out in the long term, but not getting too caught up in the mess in the middle. It's hard to stop "fixing" things and just let them be how they are - speaking for myself.
Laughing together is great! That must have felt nice for all of you. It sounds like your whole family was relaxed last night. Is that a change? If so, do you know what allowed each of you to be that way?
me: 47 H: 48 he has 2 grown sons M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd) hit iceberg 6/07 S 9/26/07 before now