Go, go, go do something for you, no matter how small. Change your hair. Buy sexy underware (I swear this feels good even if it's just for you, right now), flirt with whoever, have a girls night once or twice a month. Take some time for you. You definitely deserve it.
Supermom,
Blindsided gave some good advice...change your sexy underwear and buy some hair...oh, I mean change your hair and buy some sexy underwear (IC, who suffers from selective Dyslexia } Getting a life, doing things that feel good for YOU.
I started a thread over on the Sex Starved Marriage forum with you and your GAL in mind (hope you don't mind) I usually hang out over there and wanted to get their take on what I feel is going on with your husband as he reacts to your getting a life. Stop in sometime, they are a great bunch of helpful folks. There is always room for a fiesty, foul-mouthed, lady Canuck