CL, Yes, a bit of a pattern. It is a concern. I'm trying to figure out how to deal with this.
Cat & RJ, I have been saying for the past few years that I think H is ADD. His C finally is startign to agree. Again, not sure what to do about it.
But, as RJ said, solving problems together makes us feel more like a team. I think H knows that I am the person he relies on.
H was away all week. It was good. I had some me time (including a nice pedicure). He got back on Valentines day at 6ish. He showed up with roses, a balloon and a bottle of wine. I made him a CD mix, bought him a bar of soap that says "SEXY" on it and hot him some Godiva chocolates. We watched LOST, and had some "together" time before bed.
H is going for a new job at work. This is a really positive step, because it shows me that he is motivated to move ahead. For years, he was very lost on the job front. He was in the golf industry, then left that. Then he moved in to Pharma sales...and that's where the darkness started to creep in. All the wining and dining... late nights out... exposure to other "fun" women (i.e. OW who was also a Pharma rep). Then he finally moved in-house and is now a sales analyst. He wasn't sure he could do the job, but here we are almost a year later and he really likes it. Not only does he like it, he actually wants to take a step up and move into this other position that is even more responsibility. I just like seeing him be motivated.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
