Well we went out to dinner last night with another couple and one kid each. Had a very nice meal. W tested me a few time during the meal but I did great.
She asked before we went out if the other couple "knew about us"? I veiwed this as a test and just said no for I did not want to get into a R talk. I wanted to say "I don't know about us" for the last time we talked about anything R related was 4 days ago when I told her I didn't like that MC and I was not interested in giving up and was not interested Seperation nor D. I did not want to bring that up again. i felt it was a little bit of a set back or test after talking to her best friend and her telling me that W was willing to try harder.
I am starting to think that my wife has a little bit of a drinking problem. It's not that she drinks alot, yet she did drink more than anyone at the table last night, it's just the way she acts after she drinks and everyone else is gone. Last night we go home and I asked my S12 to come sit with me in my chair and watch the BB game like we always do. She got really mad and tried to dig up old stuff from the past like, you never wanted to sit with me like that, never wanted to lay on the couch like that with me, you always said it was uncomfortable. She just kept going on and on. I told her i was sorry she felt that way and i was here for her now if she wanted to come sit with us. She stormed off to bed and when ii went to bed she gave me all kinds of assignments to find out where the kids were and stuff like that. The kids were in the basement playing guitar hero and having fun. Her delivery sucks.
One of the Counclers I spoke with last week asked me if she had a drinking problem and I said no. C asked how much and how often she drank and what did she act like after drinking. Well this C know W is just over 100 pounds I said she drinks everynight at 5PM about three beers and then seem to be depressed and attachs after. She said "yup" that is way to much for a little girl and drinking can be a real downer. Than she asked about family history of drinking, well that is not a good story.
I would really like to know your thoughts on this. I also hope she is really ready to give it another try. All together we had a nice night last night yet she feels intitled to land on me when we alone. Very sweet when around other people.
