save yourself and if you save your M IN THE process now that is just the icing on the cake.
This should be our motto here. Yes, yes, yes!!! The most important thing is to have inner peace and happiness. Any external factors, like our M or good frieds just make it all nicer. but without inner happiness, we are nowhere.
I am not as familiar with your sitch as others. Why is your H in Mexico? Work?
I have found with my H, that when he travels, it's good for us. A little space is good. Missing each other once in a while is good. Having time to be with ourselves is good.
It's nice to hear how proud yoru H was when he told you about his ring. Very cool!
Keep up the good work!
And yes, I often need to remind myself that doing nothing is okay. That's a hard one for me.
Take care of yourself.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
