Is the WAS truly not in love w/ their spouse anymore or have they just been sucked into the honeymoon of an affair.
I can't speak for this girl, but I feel that this is what she is questioning.
Originally Posted By: RedHeadWife
If the WAS truly still loves his/her spouse and deep in their heart it is killing them to leave their family the way they are, then when the LBS starts GAL'ing to the max, it's going to drive the WAS crazy.
Again, I'm only going off of her posts, but she has somewhat started the whole GAL thing. Judging by his reactions to her GAL, he's not in the answer A category.
Originally Posted By: RedHeadWife
However, on the other hand if their M has gone way past reconciliation and the affair isn't just a "passing honeymoon," the WAS would probably either (1) not care at all that their ex was GAL and/or (2) not even notice.
I don't think he is here yet. As far as I know, the affair is fairly new and probably still in that chemical phase that everyone talks of.
BTW Red, Nice to see you back and working through everything. It took a lot of guts to recognize the situation you were in...take the bull by the horns...slam it to the ground and hogtie it Texas style. {as Red gets up, dusts herself off, and fires up the grill for some prime grade tenderloin steaks }
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