Finding my way out of the dark

[AliSuddenly]

Wow Mishka, thats amazing! You went out by yourself for the evening, I think thats really brave. I'm not sure I would even try that! I would go to a gallery/film by myself, if I went out to eat on my own, I would take a book with me. I've been out a few times with people from college that I dont know that well, but I reckon that would be better than going by yourself. I met a woman at my new job and she was going to come over for a drink, eventhough I only met her twice...so is there any way to just extend invitations to go to starbucks with anyone you have met, even if you're only just acquainted?

With the drive by..seeing as your son called you straight after, do you think is insecurities made him ask your H if they could drive that way (so he could be reassured that you were in Starbucks afterall?), rather than your H spying on you, or did you think your H was curious as to who you were meeting?

I'm impressed though that you did go out by yourself, I only just managed to go on the cycle trail by myself! (yes, I too was concerned about personal safety as I normally only did those things with my BF). If I were going out in the evening alone, I would probably not drink and I would take my car and park right outside, so I know I can leave straight away if I felt nervy.

Ali
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Me: 36
H: 34
LT: 9 years
ILYBINILWY: 2 Nov 07
Own apartment: 26 Jan 08
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