She said her decision kind of rests with me. She says that when I am calm and nice to her, she is unsure about leaving but when we `talk` then she is sure about leaving.

Did anyone ever let their S be with the OP to keep their marriage going in the short run?

Cheers

Steve

Me 27
W 30
M 2yrs/ T 5yrs
Expecting our first child Sept 08
warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08
I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08
Living together.