Well - got locked for having over posts on previous threads. That's fine.

However, sgctxok you referred to the answer about Choc being out there but didn't point me in the right direction and locked me so I couldn't reply to your post.

That doesn't seem quite right somehow does it? Many thrreads go on for much longer - you could have kept it open another day.

I am not upset - more disappointed. This place has been a life saver for me even though I came to it post reconciliation. Choc has given people on here invaluable support - we just want to understand. At the moment I feel that the value of this sight has been lessened by what has been done.


Perhaps you could be less crypric and give me the link to the answer on this thread please

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength